The primary purpose of this article is to extract the unique lesson of been in total control of your emotion especially when there is a juicy offer in real estate investment. A seemingly good deal or investment into a particular property could fill one with that kind of excitement that beclouds good judgment. 

Before making any real estate investment decision, one needs a clear mind. On the other hand, if you experience a loss in real estate investment, it takes a balanced mind not to fall into depression. Therefore, investing with the right frame of mind and accepting your loss(which occurs sometimes because of inexperience), without swinging into sadness, and hoping to make improvement in planning carefully when making property purchase.

The Narration....

 For many days and even weeks, the world was agog with the witty statement from a surprisingly small boy of four years old, Oreofeoluwa Lawal. It was a top trend, a viral video that evoked laughter in everyone. The video was indeed soothing to the mind, and helps to relieve tension in every one.


Calm down mummy, relax like this(boy demonstrates it on the sofa). Now lets assume that the mother was at that point was inflamed with anger with what Oreofeoluwa Lawal did. If she listened to her son, her anger would definitely calm down and she would be in a better position to make a rationale decision about the best discipline to adopt on the boy. This would prevent her from acting rashly in violence and hurting the boy. Of course, the mother was indeed in control of her emotions, she had learned to TAME IT. 

The aftermath resulted in unprecedented rise to FAME and GLORY. You doubt me?

The news is awash with stories of parents killing their children because they could not control their anger under provocation(sure, children could add to your stress and build up your anger to a crazy crescendo that eventually explodes like a hurricane). In the end, it becomes a blame game(but too late).

In the video, I observed that the mother was totally in control of her emotion that was why she did the video(to put it on record). And so, she didn’t overreact. In other families, this could have been the scenario: mother hits the boy with a sledge hammer or any other object to teach the boy a lasting lesson but the boy is terribly hurt, news gets, mother is arrested….(complete the script).

Many of our problems could be solved when we really “CALM DOWN” in the face of crisis. The brain relaxes, so that you could see the situation the WAY IT IS, NOT VICE VERSAL. When terribly anxious in the face of crisis, the problem takes on unimaginable PROPORTIONS. The brain plays tricks on your mind: hallucinations and other problems associated with it.

On the contrary, when you CALM DOWN, THE BRAIN BEHAVES LIKE A NORMAL KID helping you to see the situation clearly, act wisely and eventually gets out of problems.

As of this writing, the time was 2:20am, August 14, 2020. My Sleep went into exile, and the only thing on mind was just what I am doing now – writing. Just to bring the flood of emotions into control. To instruct the mind and brain that everything is ok, and thus act in that direction. YES, TO CALM DOWN!


No amount of problems would stop Chidi Property from projecting the properties for sale in Edo State. Oh yes, we have good properties for sale in Benin City and beyond. Is it 2flat for sale? we have it. Is it duplex for sale? We have it. Is it bungalow for sale in edo state? We have it. Is it 4flat for sale in Edo state? We have it. Is it hostel for sale in Edo state? We have it. The list is endless.

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